Sharing My Avo


Melanie has some new questions for us this week and here are mine a day late and a dollar short…

1. Can you parallel park (if you drive)? If you don’t drive, can you still skip?

I noticed that the bloggers who answered this question already consider themselves to be excellent at parallel parking, so I am here to provide some variety. You’re welcome! I am a terrible parallel parker and I’m not that great at parking generally. When I pull straight into a spot, or what I think is straight in, I often have to back up and fix things. Why? Because I have horrible depth perception. This isn’t because of aging either; I’ve been this way since I began driving at age 16. Skipping? I just tried and still can, but it hurt my back, like everything else, so I’m not gonna do it again anytime soon.

2. Do you prefer early morning or late evening? Or something in between.

Welp, I don’t know. I wake up with a pounding headache (and a backache) and try to pretend it’s not there, but then I realize I have to get up and deal with it. So I’m not in the best mood right away. Then after a hot shower and coffee I feel a little better, around mid-morning ~ unless the headache has become a migraine, in which case I’ll dose up with meds and hope for the best. Sometimes I get super-tired by early evening, but other times I’m fine until midnight. It doesn’t seem to relate to anything I do or don’t do. As far as creativity, that can strike anytime of day… or disappear anytime. Again, it doesn’t seem to relate to any other thing.

3. Do you like avocados?

I love avocados! I love them by themselves with a sprinkle of salt, and I love them in salads, guac, and any other dishes. They are wonderful.

4. Is mind or matter more real?

Neither is real. Everything is an illusion, bwahaha!

5. Are people in this current generation less or more sensitive than people from past generations?

How far past are we talking about? I have no idea how sensitive early humans were. “Grug, you really hurt my feels when you criticized my cave drawing. I deserve an apology. Then I think it would be a good idea to discuss how to proceed from here to repair the delicate fabric of our friendship. Trust is so important in these perilous times and– holy shit, it’s that saber-toothed tiger again! RUN!”

So yeah… who knows? But my overall feeling is that people have been “the way we are” for many generations and it’s only the comforts of modern society that keep us from behaving like savage animals. Mostly keep us, I should say. I guess it’s fun to pretend we’re either so much better or worse than previous generations. I read this “back in the day” stuff, but how true is it really? There were plenty of delicate flowers all along complaining about things. You think there weren’t “Karens” 50 years ago? Five hundred years ago? There were definitely Karens. (Btw, I hate using that term, but everyone understands the meaning, so I’m going along, baaaa.) Again, I think that more comforts and more leisure time provide more opportunity to focus on trivial crap because most of us aren’t too worried about our next meal or where we’re going to sleep tonight to be safe from the elements. If we had to focus on those things, we’d be less likely to crab about people talking on their cell phone in the elevator or whatever petty annoyance.

I don’t think people were less sensitive when things were less comfortable; I believe any one of us would “toughen up” pretty quickly if we had to. We just don’t have to, is all, so we indulge our sensitivities. And as far as the other side of the coin, the ridiculous notion that there was some mythical time when everything was grand and people looked out for each other and cared about their neighbors… la la la peace and lurve… yeah right sure. If you believe that, please let me know the exact date this occurred.

6. Optional gratitude…

I’m grateful for my daughter Diane’s visit last Friday/Saturday. It was so lovely to hang out with her… and instead of moaning about the visit being too short, I’m just thankful it happened at all. I really like the people my daughters have become and adore spending time with them. This will also be my smile for the week. I plan to see my other daughter and her family soon and visit Diane and her husband Sam over Thanksgiving. Not sure yet if I will be driving or flying. We shall see…


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22 responses to “Sharing My Avo

  1. I think it’s easier to unleash one’s inner insensitive beast when it’s through a computer screen. Less chance the neighbour in the next cave over is going to run in and beat on you for being an ass…

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  2. Love your answers, specially the one about sensitivity. 😂

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  3. Yay! Daughter visits🥳💃🏼 Reading “… visit Diane and her husband Sam…” made John Mellencamp start playing in my head🎶🤷🏼‍♀️ my brain is so weird🙄😂

    I think you’re right about people being generally the same. I do think that being able to share gripes into(onto?) the interwebs from the safety and comfort of home has given people the idea that it’s okay to be rude anywhere and everywhere all the time.
    A lot of people have quit using their “society politeness filter”🤷🏼‍♀️ just what I’ve seen. Maybe I just live in a rude area😂

    🎶Oh yeah… life goes on… long after the thrill of living is gone🎶😂😂😂💕

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  4. I enjoyed how you explained sensitive people Paula.

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  5. I totally understand how the day depends on the pain level. It sucks but it is my life too. I am grateful that I am retired and if the answer is I am up to doing nthing, then that is what happens.

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  6. People have always been people and have acted like people. I’m sure even in Grug’s day some spent half of the day with a headache… Glad you saw your daughter

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  7. I’m also a terrible parallel parker and I also think human nature has been pretty much the same as when humans first roamed the planet. It’s just circumstances that have changed.

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  8. Amazing answers! Especially LOOOOOVED your answer to the “Are people in this generation less or more sensitive” question. What a delightful answer! 😀 There definitely have been Karens all through history, perhaps even during Cave man’s time 😃
    Diane is a beautiful name 💖


  9. Thanks, Paula for Sharing Your World! 😀 You’ve actually missed some SYW posts (not that I thought or think you should read them ALL O_o ) There are an equal number of horrible parallel parkers out there to the ones who claim to be good at it. I suck at it. I can get the car straight, but how far from the curb is legal? 🤣 I’m in the avo fan club TOO. Mmmm. Someone else said they put a dash of lemon juice with the salt on their plain ones. I gotta try that soon! .🤤 Great description of sensitivity – then and now! Generalizations have become second nature sadly enough, but you’re absolutely right. Both sensitive and insensitive exist and always have and probably always will. Brain chemistry any one? 😛 Have a great week!

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