I So Lay Ted World

Share your world

Melanie has gifted us with some Q’s…

What do you do to get rid of stress?

I’ve been working on avoiding stress because once invited in, it’s tough to boot out the door. As I’ve said many times, I gave up a huge source of stress by quitting dating sites in 2016. I’m also more careful to avoid other activities and events that create anxiety, such as last minute travel, big concerts, loud parties, etc. And I know it sounds silly, but I also get easily stressed out from unfamiliar locations and parking problems, so I’m cautious of those as well.

But what if all that fails and I get stressed? Welp. I would want to be home or get home ASAP. Familiar surroundings are important to calm me down. I’d want to change into comfy warm clothes, make tea, lock the door, and be in silence to decompress. I’d probably play some word and card games on my phone to have something soothing to do. Then I might “self-talk” through the situation, pace, cry, rant, call a daughter, rinse, repeat as necessary. Hopefully, I’d have a day to myself to process whatever thing this was.

Bitmoji meditation

In the past people were buried with the items they would need in the afterlife, what would you want buried with you so you could use it in the afterlife?

Pierce Brosnan. ❤️

What’s the opposite of a koala?  (this is strictly for fun.  I know what I came up with as an answer, but it was nonsensical.   Alaok.  See?   It’s okay to pass on this one too if you want)

Well… a koala is a gentle tree-dwelling vegetarian, so the opposite of that would be a vicious water-dwelling carnivore… I’ll say shark. There are others though, if anyone is offended that sharks are unfairly singled out. We can go with barracuda then. They both have songs about them, which is nice. Idk if there’s a song about a koala, but I bet Jim would know! 🙂

What’s the creepiest tech out there?  (My interpretation of “tech” is app or program.  If you know what “tech” is supposed to mean, hey!  Great!   Educate us.

Facebook. It has all the creepies ~ trackers to know where you are and what you’re doing, ads shoveled at you every second, face recognition software, conversation recording, “oopsie we stole/sold all your data & promise never to again” my bads, fake news, fake profiles, conspiracy groups, scammers allowed to flourish, hackers, trolls, etc. But you have to be on, I know, or how else would you know what your third cousin twice removed is up to?


What method are you using to find your smile right now?   Please explain in detail so others might utilize the same ideas.   Some bloggers have shared a daily (weekly sometimes) method that they are using to keep their spirits up right now.   I’d love to hear from anyone who does and is successful at it!    Have a great week and stay safe!

My spirits are not “up.” I find this whole ordeal scary and unpleasant, though I totally understand the necessity of doing isolation until this thing is more under control. The best I can hope for on any given day is to keep up with the chores and writing goals I’ve set for myself, stick with good habits, and try to avoid stress (such as arguing with anyone). Neutral days are fine for now. Good days will come again later when I can visit my family again.

Personally, I find it helpful to read small bits of news when I’m in the mood for an update, and not just about :the thing: but also cute aminal stories too. I avoid live news, most especially any clips of babbling politicians. Listening to a press conference would spin me into an insta depression. 🤮

Paper dolls


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13 responses to “I So Lay Ted World

  1. Pierce Brosnan!!!! Yup~

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  2. I get stressed with driving and parking in new areas too. Especially at night. Driving is stressful anyway, white knuckling the wheel, watching all the Idjits… ugh!

    Pierce Brosnan, huh? 🤔 not bad…😂💌

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  3. Well answered! Will he be dead, when buried with you, PB?

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  4. What’s particularly creepy about Facebook is that it knows who your third cousin twice removed is even though you don’t follow them.

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  5. I also hate facebook. I took down my profile, but is annoying that some public places use it as a way to read their updates, so- I don’t read those updates.
    Pierce is cute, I think Russell Crowe for me. Rituals are keeping me somewhat, a tiny bit less stressed, and I never watch news on TV anymore. Am trying hard not to read on phone either, only hard copy news…

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  6. Thanks Paula for Sharing Your World. Pierce Brosnan? Mmm mmm MMMM! He might just relieve my stress and all! 😛 You aptly described what I feel as well, so don’t feel alone. It’s becoming increasingly rare that I’ll even venture outside at all and it’s fairly gorgeous out there too (well except for the icy wind. It was 21 degrees here this morning. That’s WEIRD!) Take care and find your cozy spots as this thing keeps dragging on and on…

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