“I’m indecisive because I see eight sides to everything.” ~ April Kepne
I was indecisive while choosing this quote from Introvert Spring, a great resource for info and quotes on the topic. I am wishy-washy and I do have a hard time making decisions, especially important ones, and I will wait long enough until someone else makes them or one choice becomes the only one possible. Boo. Sometimes it’s good to wait, but not always. It’s also good to be open-minded and see multiple points of view, writer or not, but sometimes the right thing to do is decide.
Of course, there have been times I’ve just gone with an emotion and made impulse decisions. Were those the right choices? I dunno. Luckily, I’m at the point in my life where I don’t have to listen to anyone else’s criticisms of my decisions any longer, and that is a glorious place to be!
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Amen!
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Thanks! 💖💐
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I am impulse through and through. The one who regrets in leisure
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Ahhh, I understand 🙂
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🤪
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I find it very difficult to navigate between “going with the flow” and making decisions that are in my own self interest. When no one but you acts in your own self interest, you find yourself fighting the rest of the world all the time. Very fatiguing. Plus, most of the time, in my case, I’m not that smart, so going with the flow has at least as much chance at being fortuitous. This is sort of like what happens when you try to pick the fastest line at the grocery store, or the “best” lane to be in on the freeway.
Right now, I can’t tell if I’m joking, or not.
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I know what you mean. Mostly I go along and blend in. I’m no loud rebel. But I do enjoy my alone time and need to make sure I have enough of it.
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Oh boy, do I understand this quote. I’ve gotten better lately but still sometimes find myself frozen because I just can’t make a decision.
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It can be paralyzing! So much choice…
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I feel you! I am so indecisive, just choosing what to have for dinner is a chore….
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Right? Thanks for commenting! It’s nice to know I’m not the only one 🙂
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I know! Decisions…I hate making them, so I mostly do the same, as in waiting, looking at all sides, pros and cons, and then finally someone else will decide anyway because I took too long. haha! 🙂
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Yep, same. 😜
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Amen to that glorious place to be! ❤ 😀
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Right on! 🎉
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Decision Fatigue is a very real thing 1
I once wrote a set of posts on the topic.
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Good term.
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Lol, I’ve changed my FB page name several times. Now they have a thing where they show all your name changes I guess to bust scammers, but I’m like, I’m not a scammer I’m just indecisive and change my mind a lot. 🦋
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That’s odd. I guess on FB and twitter it’s a scammer tactic, but here? I know people do change their names when their lives and moods transform. 🙂
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I am so glad your in that place now! I can be indecisive too! Not always but sometimes! xo
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