Quote from Goodreads.
This is undeniably true; only a psychopath could witness certain kinds of horrors and stay serene and unaffected. I also believe that depression should be considered a normal reaction to experiencing profound grief. Why do we have to think of it as an illness? Whether medication is necessary or desirable is a separate topic. I’m only talking about the way we think about dark and prolonged sadness.
People don’t want to know. They want to see the phony smile. They want the bland “good” in reply to their meaningless “how ya doing?” They put artificial time limits on other people’s grief or heartbreak. A year is “long enough” to mourn, or you can’t be that upset over him ~ you only went on a handful of dates! Oh. My mistake. I’ll just take my ball of sad and go home.
Anyway. I think it’s good to remember that people can have different reactions to the same situation. We aren’t all carved from a monolithic mind.
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A great quote.
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Ty 🙂
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Welcome.
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This reminds me of something I heard somewhere. Unfortunately, I can’t recall where I heard it or who said it, but it was something like “sanity always adjusts toward insanity.”
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Interesting 🙂
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I don’t just like this post, I love it.
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Yay! ❤️
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Your comment about depression and grief reminded me of an article Sal linked to last year and that I reposted this year on FB: https://www.theguardian.com/society/2018/jan/07/is-everything-you-think-you-know-about-depression-wrong-johann-hari-lost-connections?fbclid=IwAR1qKarIq06mu3auec2w1rV0tOkUwc4K58zP6H99bC0kd1-n_RK3Mv9AcM8
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Good article.
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I’ve found it helpful.
(Sorry about the ridiculous length of link.)
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