Invisible Disability Week

Shout out to Invisibly Me for alerting me to our special week. (Today I’m using this in lieu of the usual prompts.) I note that migraines are at the top of the invisible disabilities list ~ what a great honor, lol. But I don’t want to neglect any of my other issues ~ I also have chronic neck and back pain.

Are those disabilities? Well, they prevent me from walking more than about three miles at a time, so I have to plan events carefully and decline quite a few. I can’t stand in long lines either. And it’s difficult for me to sit for more than a few minutes on benches without backs, like at stadiums. Regardless of how careful I am, I wake up every morning with a bunch of lower back pain that eases a little after a hot shower and some moving around. I realize many people have it so much worse, and I may too eventually. It’s definitely worse than it was ~ five years ago I could walk five miles and only be somewhat sore.

But my main disability is migraine disease, which is invisible and afflicts millions. Luckily for us, the drug companies are always trying to come up with new meds to help our suffering, since there’s so much money on the table. I take Topamax twice a day and Sumatriptan as needed. I also take ibuprofen pretty much daily for my achies. Sometimes I can divert a migraine with extra strength Excedrin instead of the Suma, which is great, since insurance allows only 9 Suma per month. I get a few migraines per week, though they generally are not the agonizing kind some sufferers have. They’re just painful, nauseating, and annoying.

As an aside, these issues layered on top of all my bad experiences with narcissists, liars, nutballs, and stalkers, and added to my own emotional bruises, have formed themselves into a barbed wire stay away cake that lurks in my attic whenever I peek in to see if any of my romantic frocks are ready to be tried on again. Oh well. The thing about cakes is they can’t be unbaked.

I try not to brood and spiral into sadness over these issues, though occasionally I do. Instead, I tell myself I’m lucky and should feel thankful and grateful. This isn’t because I’m comparing myself to others who have it worse and going neener neener, but because objectively speaking I can take stock of the good things in my life and focus on them. If I forget, there’s always a loud meow and a paw smooshed in my eye at 5am to remind me.

9 responses to “Invisible Disability Week

  1. Great to hear from you. Sorry for your woes but this is a great post I bookmarked it. Because I have I have invisible disabilities to and this is great post and things to do for people help other people too see you later blessings peace

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  2. I used to suffer from horrendous migraines, some blinding and once I was so ill, Hubby called out the doc. He gave me a jab in my butt, which knocked me sideways for three days. Cured my sore throat (a plus), and apart from getting up for the loo or having something light to eat, I slept those three days away. Main bugbear now is arthritis……. in my hands, my hip, my back, shoulder, knees and feet. Walking is awkward until I get going (it’s like winding me up) but I do what I can when I can. I like to walk the dog at least 2 and a half miles a day but due to problems with my feet at the moment (I’m type 2 diabetic so have to look after them), I’m not walking far.
    My sympathies as you have far more to worry about that me.

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  3. Yes, sorry to hear about such serious issues you face, if only it were otherwise, but I do like your resilience in facing it.

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  4. {{{You}}}
    from Me

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